A Different Perspective on Raksha Bandhan

“Sisters and brothers just happen – we don’t get to choose them, but they become one of our most cherished relationships.” This quote by Wes Adamson admires the love between a brother and sister, showcasing how nature, like an orchestra, creates the symphony of this relationship. Here, it is nature that chooses the pair to be a brother and sister. Those people are lucky who are bound by this relationship. But do they really realize how fortunate they are? Perhaps they do, perhaps they don’t.

It is the beautiful day of Raksha Bandhan. I know many articles and essays have already been published in newspapers and on websites. My first paragraph may also sound familiar. But now, I will try to show you a slightly different view of this day. Today, our world is going through a crisis where crimes against women are becoming increasingly common.

Here, it doesn’t matter whether it is a developing or developed country; crimes against women are higher than any other category of crime. How has the situation gone from bad to worse? According to UN Women, the rise in crimes against women is the result of a complex interplay of factors, including deeply entrenched patriarchal norms, gender inequality, and socio-economic disparities.

These factors have not only perpetuated discrimination but have also normalized certain behaviours that strip women of their dignity and security. This is where the spirit of Raksha Bandhan takes on a deeper meaning—beyond the ceremonial thread and sweets. The essence of this festival is about protection, respect, and mutual care. But can we truly say we are honouring our sisters if society at large fails to ensure their safety?

The reality is alarming. According to the NCRB 2022 data, India recorded 4.45 lakh cases of crimes against women, averaging about 51 FIRs every hour. Globally, UN Women and UNODC data reveal that about 140 women and girls are killed every day by intimate partners or family members, making up nearly 60% of all women intentionally murdered in 2023. These numbers are not just statistics but a mirror to the society we live in.

It is easy to celebrate Raksha Bandhan with smiles, gifts, and social media posts, but the real challenge is to translate that affection into action. A brother’s promise should not end with a ritual. It must extend to supporting women’s rights, speaking up against harassment, and challenging outdated mindsets even in our own homes.

Today, as we tie rakhis and exchange vows of love, let us also take an oath to build a society where every woman can walk freely, speak fearlessly, and live without the constant shadow of danger. Because only then will the bond of Raksha Bandhan reflect its true essence—not just between siblings, but in the collective conscience of humanity.

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